K.S Chithra's daughter died....

                       India's No:1 play back singer, K.S. Chithra's daughter died after falling in a swimming pool at a villa in Dubai this morning.....OMG!She was only 8 years old. I just cant believe this news... K.S Chithra is known for her down to earth nature. She had been waiting for 15 years (since her wedding) for a baby. It was also heard that the baby was suffering from Down syndrome and she had filed a case against the hospital authorities for not detecting it in an early scanning. I think God had made a big mistake in her case...and that too 'why it's always she '. Hope God gives her the strength to fight this too...
                   But this is going to be a big lesson for all the parents.....Just this morning I got my biodata and CV ready as I was preparing for an interview. I just dropped the idea of going for a job after listening to this news....All I'm going to do is sit at home and take care of my baby and that's going to be my job...no more babysitters.
                    Please....here i'm begging to all parents in this world...please take care of your children... we are livin+g for them....earning for them...don't forget to care them while making money....

Our wedding pics

My wedding saree......'pudava'

i did'nt like my hair style....at all

this is ma fav. lacha....

wedding day

with mom n dad

Ready to go to auditorium

Dressing up

Receiving groom....

the big hall

Rose flowers strung together in a chain

Set...

dressing up..

vettila n lemon...for blessings...

bride's entry.....

poooja begins...

shubhs muhurtham

happy....

together for ever and ever

My very patient husband #5

I don't know how he can be so patient. He used to sing songs and put me to sleep every night. when i throw up at midnight....he used to clean me up. The truth is 'yettan' was more like a Doctor than a husband. He used to listen to baby's heart beat and movements everyday using his steth. We used to go to parks and beach for evening walks. He used to take lessons on delivery...how baby grows.....everything in detail....Every week he used to bring a new book for me. I could always hear him talking to anyone of his dr.friends..asking them their experiences...regarding hospitals, facilities etc. Only after my 7th month i started visiting hospital for a regular checkup till then he was my gynecologist too. I should'nt forget this....some days i threw up very badly ...and he used to stay awake through out the night and go for job next morning. I love him so much.....

Physical and emotional changes #4

I was not sheltered from the usual symptoms.

Dreams...#3

Now wedding, honeymoon, parties, fun...everything is over in just 2 months.. Both of us were lil bit disappointed. But he started caring me like a baby. I just loved being with him all the time...... dreaming.

The BIG NEWS 'this'.... #2

We got married on Nov 30,2008. We were really enjoying our married life. I just want the world know what a wonderful husband i have. Both of us were not ready for a baby for the next 3-4yrs. we just wanted to enjoy life to the fullest moving all over the world. We went to Singapore and Malaysia for our honeymoon and we were back by Dec 28th .
And 'this' happened in the 3rd month after wedding. I felt sick all the time , lost appetite ,headache, back pain. Then my periods was late. And my husband was making fun of me saying "you might be pregnant... he..he..."...CRAZY...But none of us took this ill seriously.

The next day he(my hubby...i call him yetta..so from here onwards lets call him 'yetta') just called up one of our family friend who is a Gynecologist and he told her about my symptoms. She suddenly said..."thumbi(well! that's my pet name)is probably pregnant ". That was a big shock for both of us. It was like all our dreams are shattered one fine day...as we were not yet ready to play daddy mommy roles.

The same evening yettan brought a home pregnancy test kit and we tested but it showed up negative result. We were really tensed and the very next day we tested once again. Again it showed negative .So were like......relax....cool...cool....But our minds started changing slowly. And we really started wishing for a baby. After a week Jan 13th 2010, about 10.30 p.m. we tested again .It was one of the best day in our life...you know why...the result showed positive. Yettan and me ...we...were filled with joy and excitement. We even had a second thought about giving up(yeah! that's a truth).Anyway he ran to pass this news to his mom. But i was still confused about presenting 'this' to my parents. For my parents I'm just a 22 year old baby. And they don't expect their baby to have a baby in the 3rd month after their baby's wedding. I was really shy to present this BIG NEW NEWS. So i called up on of my cousin sister who is in Ireland at midnight and told 'this'. She and her husband just asked us to go ahead ...and we got our first 'CONGRATZ' from them. In-fact we didn't sleep that night.
The nest day morning my mom in law gave me a shy smile.hmm! it was really hard for me to face anyone. The we went to my home to meet my mom. Yettan passed 'this' BIG NEWS about the NEWCOMER in our family to my mom.My mom suddenly got up from her seats...she was like OMG! She started crying and laughing together .....strange emotions. She hugged me and all i could do was just smile at her. I asked her not to flash the news for a couple of days...so that we could decide on it . But she just flashed it the same day itself. I was hung up with phone calls...All in the same tone....same...words...."Its ok!...Anyway u should have a baby ...its lil bit early..but its ok....Learn to accept this....Congrats...."Hmmm! I think it was harder for them to believe that i'm pregnant than it was for me. Anyway the 'this' factor started growing in my belly and we just started loving our baby and my belly.

Our Bun In My Oven #1

Hi! I'm really new to blogging. Last week me and my daughter had Diarrhea. So i was having a real tough time...tired...bored...sitting at home. And suddenly my husband gave me this idea ..."y dont you make your pregnancy scrapbook"...Hmm....Our baby is now 1yr 5months old....and now he was asking me to make a scrapbook. But its true if i dont make it even now....then when am i going to do? So here i'm super new to blogging making my scrapbook and presenting to the world-'OUR LIL BUN IN MY OVEN- My Belly Book'. Enjoy!